Creating a safe space

I have always known the value of being surrounded by likeminded people. As a speech pathologist our profession is full of people who nurture. I always valued being a member of an allied health team. So, when I was at that stage of life of transitioning, trying to work out who or what I wanted to ‘be next’. I knew I needed to surround myself with women, this was my natural happy place.

I adore working with others on a common goal.

In the early days of the business, I would read ‘the 5 people who you spend most time influence you the most or represent who you are the most’… you know the rhetoric, if you want to be in business surround yourself with business folk. But I would look around and see – 4 children. 1 husband and I was at my 5.

So intentionally I started to put myself in groups, either businesswomen or women who were seeking more to life and as such putting themselves in the room to redefine their stories.

There were two groups that became my safe landing space—not just for professional growth, but for personal support. When one of my children became very ill, I found solace in these spaces. They showed me hope.

They offered me a place without expectations, a space where I felt held and seen. Even though my life was consumed by family responsibilities, these groups allowed me to sit with the potential of my own future. They were at arm’s length, so I could share my struggles without needing to protect them from the harsh realities.

We all need a safe landing space—a place to be held and supported.

I wish for all people, but especially mothers a safe space to share. People who show them an idea of who they may grow into when this intensity of parenting starts to wane.

How can you create or find a safe space where you feel held and supported?

With love,
Bonny 💖